10 Awful On-Line Dating Mistakes Guys Make

Guys, would you like to know ten things you absolutely must avoid in order to succeed at on-line dating?

Here’s a piece offering five suggestions for keeping the sex going as we get older. The attached picture should tip you off to one of them.

The writer, Dr. Dorree Lynn, makes such a great point with Number One: Foreplay should start first thing in the morning and continue all day, as you express your affection for each other though words, caresses, and deeds. That paves the way for the trust and closeness that leads naturally to the intimacy. Other good ideas in the piece, too; check it out…

Too busy to work out? What if you could sneak quick ten minute bursts of exercise into your daily routine?

This article from the New York Times focuses on three women Over 50 and their attitudes toward aging and the cosmetics industry.

Andrea Robinson, who has worked for several leading cosmetics companies as well as fashion magazines, says not enough attention is paid to the hormonal shifts that occur in women Over 50, and the effects that has on their skin. She’s written a book, Toss the Gloss –Beauty Tips, Tricks & Truths for Women 50+, that she hopes will “unconfuse” these women who’ve been dismissed by the cosmetics industry.

Lisa Copeland is a dating coach who specializes in women Over 50. In this piece, she offers advice on making sure your body language is conveying the message you want it to, and how to read the messages his body language is sending back. The article is aimed at women, but guys can benefit from it, too.

As if you needed more incentive, here are 9 reasons you should have more sex. Seriously, doctors and science-types contributed to this list. It’s totally legit. And look, it’s not only listed in our Dating, Romance, & Sex section, it’s even in the Health & Fitness section.

A couple weeks back we featured an article about Over 50 dating deal breakers, including poor health, financial instability, and lack of attractiveness.

In this piece, dating Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan references that survey, but takes it a step further. She points out that one can never know whose health will turn bad or who will suffer a financial turnaround, but suggests that her female clients should avoid men who are already on the road to those problems. She offers tips for bumping up one’s attractiveness, both physically and spiritually, and concludes with some words of wisdom about unrealistic expectations. Fairly basic, ladies, but worth a look…

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Are you still angry at your ex? Do you blame him or her for the divorce, and for other problems you’re currently encountering? Do you even fantasize about getting even, or making him or her “pay?”

Writing for yourtango.com, Cindy Holbrook offers Four Ways to Keep Divorce Anger From Eating Away at You. Her point, as you probably guessed, is that that anger is only hurting you — your ex could not care less. She says letting go of anger doesn’t mean you approve of what your ex may have done, it just means you won’t let him or her have that power over you.

If you haven’t been able to let go of those lingering feelings, definitely check out this piece.

Good advice for anyone Over 50, whether Divorced, happily married, or somewhere in between: Do not let your adult kids ruin your retirement.

From AARP, here’s a slide show of the top 15 Superfoods for Over 50’s. You’ve probably heard all this before, but it’s a nice presentation, including info on the good things the foods do for you, and the bad things they protect you from. Additional good news: both dark chocolate and coffee are on the list!